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Fightin’ Words
It is true that all couples fight and I am not one to express an opinion in favor or against couples having disagreements. Personally, I would rather they not fight, but no rational person—myself included—would ever advocate that a relationship subsists without any disagreements because we all know it is impossible to do so. But […]
Don’t Be A Fool.
She finally got the courage to kick him out of the house. She is now working on herself, putting together her life. So the other day, he says to her, “I’m willing to talk to a “neutral” person and work on our relationship.” He told her he wants to return. Really? He wants to come […]
Shattered Pieces
I am still amazed by the amount of women who walk into my office and ask me to fix the unfixable. As quickly as I discard their trying audacity demanding that I clean up their mess, I cannot help but to be taken aback by the ignorance and naivety these women exhibit as to the […]
Girls and Beauty Pageants. Not a Good Thing.
Parents mean well when they put their daughters in beauty pageants. They believe pageants will build their daughters’ self-esteem and confidence. They believe it will prepare them for the future. Some would even say it is a good thing because the earnings will pay for college. But the consequence beauty pageants brings to young girls […]
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
A response to a 25-year-old woman’s questions: 1. He is 25 – it is time for him to go out and enjoy himself. If clubbing is not your thing, it’s ok. You don’t have to go out. But simply because you don’t like to go clubbing does not mean he too should dislike it. I […]
Planning for Future Separations and Divorces
Simply because two people claim an undying love for each other and decide to tie the knot, it does not mean that they have somehow unlocked the key to a wonderful marriage. We all know that marriage is what we do after the goo-goo, gaa-gaa- period has run its course. Something as important as marriage […]
Them Fighting Words
It is true that all couples fight and I am not one to express an opinion in favor or against couples having disagreements. Personally, I would rather they not fight, but no rational person—myself included—would ever advocate that a relationship subsists without any disagreements because we all know it is impossible to do so. But […]
It Takes Attitude To Fix A Relationship
In the last article, I discussed maturity as an ingredient we have to have for a successful relationship. Once we have maturity, there is also another essential ingredient we must have for a successful relationship. Attitude. Attitude is basically our willingness to succeed in our newly established relationship. By attitude I simply mean honesty. Relationships […]
It Takes Maturity To Fix A Relationship
Many couples come to me in hopes of solving their relationship difficulties. Although the problems they bring seem to vary from couple to couple, at least on the surface, they are much of the same at the core. Once the emotions calm and the drama subside, I find what is causing their difficulties and their […]
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