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Marriage & Long-Term Relationships: A Game For Mature Adults
Marriages and long-term relationships are a game for mature adults, and if you want to play and play this game successfully, it is imperative you be a mature adult. Self-Sufficiency can only be achieved by people who are mature adults. I have specific definitions for the words mature and adult respectively that I will share with you in the book. I will show you throughout this how to become self-sufficient, but I cannot show how to be a mature adult since it is a level of existence/consciousness to which the overwhelming majority reach naturally and on their own volition. I can only describe to you what a mature, adult is, and it is up to you to reach that level. But if and when you do, then we can start talking about Self-Sufficiency and whatever the endeavor of becoming self-sufficient calls for.
Once you become self-sufficient, I will then explain to you how you go about creating and maintaining a long-term relationship from a unique perspective and methodology. Even if you do not choose to apply my methodology to your personal circumstance, you will definitely enjoy the intellectual challenge when flipping through the madness of my method. I guarantee you, the concept behind Life Simplified is well thought-out and well-reasoned, and I challenge anyone to debate its validity. In fact, an honest debate is what I am looking for.
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Dr. Tseday is a clinical psychologist and one of the country's leading experts in marriage, relationships, and self development. She advocates a unique and at times controversial approach to the dynamics of marriage and personal development, the necessary element for a successful relationship. Read more »