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Ask Dr. Tseday: March 10, 2010

S from Jubail, India asks: I have four wives, but only three at the present. I am still unsatisfied and looking for a wife. But I don’t want to go the same way I did before. I need to know what my problem is and find a solution. Is it my mistake or am i just unlucky? Can you help?

Dr. Tseday responds: It seems to me that you’ve looked for satisfaction from four wives, and if you haven’t found it in them, perhaps that satisfaction you’re looking for isn’t coming from them, but from you. I suggest you do some self-exploration and self-examination to first find out what satisfies you. My guess is that whatever you find, it can only be satisfied by you. Aim to satisfy yourself first. Know that one who is happy with him/herself wouldn’t desperately need or depend on another to be happy.

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Dr. Tseday is a clinical psychologist and one of the country's leading experts in marriage, relationships, and self development. She advocates a unique and at times controversial approach to the dynamics of marriage and personal development, the necessary element for a successful relationship. Read more »

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