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Dr. Tseday Aberra is a clinical psychologist and one of the country's leading experts in marriage, relationships, and self development. She advocates a unique and at times controversial approach to the dynamics of marriage and personal development, the necessary element for a successful relationship.

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Petals. Pretty Pink Ones. For You, H.

10/22/11
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“Thank You!”

07/14/11

We wanted to let you know we are doing good. We’ve had a few bumps in the road, but learning to end them quickly has been vital to resolving our conflicts. WE have also had to learn that being right is not being happy. Most importantly, MATURITY — which is the absolutely hardest for us. Thank you. I hope you’re having a great summer.
C from Yorba Linda, CA

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The True Measure of Adulthood

05/04/11

“The ability to swallow the disappointments and failures of life, and to be able to move on with life with decency and a smile.”

This is what I was thinking about driving back at 6 am this morning. I wanted to share my thoughts with you.

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A Perfect Wife. A Perfect Husband.

04/20/11

Being a wife is only by name. Being married is only by title.
But to truly be a wife in matrimony can only be acheived by deed.
Being a husband is easy. Being married requires very little effort.
But to truly be a husband in matrimony, a man must do certain things.

To honestly be called the better half to one’s partner, there are 10 things that a man and a woman must do for each other. At the end, you must know and understand a perfect wife makes the perfect husband.

Saturday, April 23, 2011 on www.VoiceAmericaHealth.com @ 8 am (pst). I’d love it if you can make it.

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A Mother’s Sacrifice

04/14/11

In this episode of “Life Simplified,” I want to share with you the struggle of a loving and brave mother as she builds a new relationship with her daughter. The mother’s struggle is with how to consolidate the great sacrifice she made for her daughter with the little value the daughter has given to that sacrifice. This is a mother’s personal journey. I hope this show lends a valuable lesson to all mothers who are or have been in her place once.

Join Me. Saturday, April 16, 2011 on www.VoiceAmericaHealth.com @ 8 am (pst).

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What Not To Do If You Want To Repair Your Relationship

04/06/11

When our relationships are in trouble, we do different things in
hopes of finding solution. Some people reach out to family and friends while others keep to themselves. Some people read books and watch television so they gain insight into their problems while others prefer no such thing. Although many things people do to solve their
relationship problems is beneficial, there are just certain things they ought not to do because it does more damage than good. One such example is watching reality TV. Another is keeping a miserable company.

In this episode of “Life Simplified,” I’m going to identify the things people should stay away from if they want to repair their relationships. I hope you join me.

Satuday, April 9, 2011 on www.VoiceAmericaHealth.com @ 8 am (pst).

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What Not To Do If You Want To Repair Your Relationship

04/06/11

When our relationships are in trouble, we do different things in
hopes of finding solution. Some people reach out to family and friends while others keep to themselves. Some people read books and watch television so they gain insight into their problems while others prefer no such thing. Although many things people do to solve their
relationship problems is beneficial, there are just certain things they ought not to do because it does more damage than good. One such example is watching reality TV. Another is keeping a miserable company.

In this episode of “Life Simplified,” I’m going to identify the things people should stay away from if they want to repair their relationships. I hope you join me.

Satuday, April 9, 2011 on www.VoiceAmericaHealth.com @ 8 am (pst).

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To Live Or Not Live Together Before Getting Married?

03/31/11

Do I dare to talk about this? Yes, of course. Regardless of the opinions
out there about this subject and regardless of the references upon which beliefs are based, I would like us to talk about it as intelligent folks because it is a very important matter that influences married life at a later time.

I am sure this topic has been debated before, but I’m going to give you my thoughts on it. So join me on the next “Life Simplified” and hear what I have to say.

Saturday, April 2, 2011 on www.VoiceAmericaHealth.com @ 8 am (pst).

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Women Who Get Stuck In Relationships & The Men Who Love To Have Them That Way

03/24/11

There is nothing more heartbreaking than watching women stuck in relationships. Even though they had no intention of getting stuck, they end up being in this position as a result of their deficiency or their lack of readiness prior to getting into relationships.

So let’s talk about why women end up stuck in relationships. What are they suppose to “be” beforehand? What are they suppose to avoid? What are the deficiencies that are getting them in trouble? Even though it is ultimately their responsibility to make sure they don’t get
stuck, we must also talk about the men who want women who can’t go anywhere in their lives.

Join me on the next “Life Simplified.” Saturday, March 26, 2011 on www.VoiceAmericaHealth. com @ 8 am (pst).

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Managing The In-Laws

03/21/11

It is not so unusual to have problems with in-laws. The reason these problems exist is not always because the couple or their respective parents are bad people, it is because the couple have not defined their relationship with their in-laws. The lack of definition plays a huge part in the misunderstanding about the role of in-laws, the degree
of their influence on the marriage and on the family, the amount of their involvement in various areas, and so forth.

In this episode of “Life Simplified,” I’ll talk about how to manage the in-laws by examining what the couple should establish and should do for a better relationship with their in-laws. I hope you join me.

Saturday, March 19, 2011 on www.VoiceAmericaHealth.com @ 8 am (pst).

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