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The Game Is With Me!
It is very easy, almost instinctive to immediately look at others as having caused you problems in your life. While in many cases that may be true, to look towards them for solution is not always the wise thing to do. If you say they are the problem, then you cannot say they are the solution. If they are causing you problems, it is very doubtful they are interested in bringing you solution. And if they are capable of having the solution, then you have got to ask why they would be invested in brininging you problems from the start. Do you see how you are wrapped up in “them” and how it is not going anywhere?
So stop looking around. The game of life is not to focus on “them.” The game of life is to focus on yourself. Understand, know, and believe you are the solution. Change your thinking. Change your perspective. Most importantly, change your behavior.
Start empowering yourself. Start saying – The Game Is With Me!”
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Dr. Tseday is a clinical psychologist and one of the country's leading experts in marriage, relationships, and self development. She advocates a unique and at times controversial approach to the dynamics of marriage and personal development, the necessary element for a successful relationship. Read more »