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A 3-Second Marriage Makeover. Free.

1. Hold hands in the house.
2. Say “sorry” right away. The other must accept without reprimand, without attitude.
3. Look for each other in the house.
4. Say “I got it.”
5. Pay attention to each other.
6. Don’t end a fight by walking away from each other. If you do walk away, return quickly.
7. When one returns after a fight, the other must receive without reprimand, without attitude.
8. Greet each other at the door.
9. Do what the other likes, not what you like or what you want to do.
10. When one goes upstairs (or anywhere else) to change after coming home, follow.This creates opportunity to talk, share, connect…
or to sneak-in a little hanky-panky.
11. Put each other to bed.
12. Touch her. Remind her of her sensuality.
13. Touch him. Remind him of his sexuality.

About the author

Dr. Tseday is a clinical psychologist and one of the country's leading experts in marriage, relationships, and self development. She advocates a unique and at times controversial approach to the dynamics of marriage and personal development, the necessary element for a successful relationship. Read more »


  1. yihenew ayalew
    Posted 01/01/14 at 4:33 AM | Permalink

    Hi! Dr. Tseday:
    I was really happy about your conversation on the Helen Show through EBS. When u explained the facts of divorce b/n couples, however, u paid more attention on the problems men create. I agree with what you said, but why didn’t u mention problems women create?

  2. Sami g
    Posted 03/23/14 at 7:59 AM | Permalink

    Hi Dr. Tseday
    I have seen your conversation on Helen Show on EBS and I found it interesting. I have learned a lot on how I should handle my marriage.

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